Because Not All Love Looks the Same
Somatic relationship coaching for the full spectrum of love, intimacy, and desire.
Somatic relationship coaching for people whose brains, bodies, and hearts don’t fit the standard template, including neurodivergent, queer, kinky, and non-monogamous folx.
At Somanawa, I specialise in somatic intimacy coaching for people navigating non-traditional relationships, neurodivergence, kink, trauma, and more.
Services
Go Deep. Stay Present. Come Home to Your Bad@ss ND Self.
Let’s help you shift from feeling frustrated, misunderstood, and carrying unmet needs, to playful connection and deep intimacy.
Whether you’re healing from relationship rupture, struggling to connect, navigating polyamorous relationship dynamics, or exploring more creative intimacy, these spaces are for ND people ready to do the real work of transformation in both body and mind.
Somatic Intimacy Coaching
Private, personalised sessions help you go from unsatisfying relationships and intimacy to deep connection and pleasure.
I offer regular 1:1 coaching on a biweekly basis to half-day, full-day, or multi-day formats for you alone or with a partner.
Options:
- Biweekly 50-minute sessions
- 1:1 Full-Day or Half-Day Intensives (in person or online)
- Custom Couple/Polycule or Kink Dynamic packages
Group Workshops
Live online or in-person group workshops.
Group intensives give you access to shared learning, nervous system support, relational practice, and desire exploration in a safe, facilitated container.
These workshops are carefully curated for clarity, consent, and co-regulation. No performance. Just practice, presence, and play—with others on the same path.
Topics may include:
- Neurodivergent Consent and Communication in Relationships
- Somatic Kink Practices
- Polyamory Prep School
- Coming out in mid-life
- Relationship Repair & Somatic Relationship Skills
Workshops Include:
- From 1 Hour to 3 Day Intensives (in person or online)
- Optional 6-Week Integration Series (follow-up support)
FREE DOWNLOAD
Your Neurodivergent Nervous System in Relationships
Understand how your neurodivergent nervous system is shaping your relationships — and discover three embodied practices to begin shifting patterns today.
Available as an instant download — no sign-up required.
FREE INTERACTIVE TOOL
The Somatic Kink Checklist
Most kink checklists ask what you want to do. This one asks what you want to feel and what makes you feel it. A guided, embodied three-part exploration of desire, sensation, and consent. Your answers stay private in your browser and can be downloaded as a PDF.
Part One: Your Why · Part Two: How You Want to Feel · Part Three: What You Want to Do
Reviews
Really useful, I like therapies that are more than just talking. I’ve done a lot of different therapies over the years and I find your interactive approach more helpful. Probably because as someone who is neurodivergent, touch is difficult for me sometimes but it also makes it more powerful when learning things and overcoming barriers.
— Rob T
Working with Chloé has been a life-changing experience. I’ve struggled with trusting myself and setting boundaries, and getting to practice feeling how my body responds to setting and receiving boundaries has totally transformed my ability to get what I want (and more importantly, avoid what I don’t!)
— Jessica H
I was surprised how close the subjects of intimacy and relationships were related to the subjects I discuss at ‘regular’ therapy. It taught me that sexuality is more closely related to the rest of my inner world than I previously expected or understood. Now, I’m feeling more comfortable and accepting my body more. I’ve even started having glimpses of fantasies compared to having none before! It was really nice to feel heard and to learn more about my sexuality on a deeper emotional level.
— Paula L
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